
Thanksgiving 2011 was such a hard time for the Dillon community. I received some dreadful news on Wednesday morning that Jake David, my 17 year old neighbor in Dillon, was involved in a fatal car accident. I was absolutely devastated and heartbroken for his parents. I will never forget the little boy next door with the red curly hair. The hundreds of people that attended his visitation and funeral are proof that he and his family were and are so loved. I was reminded that we were gathered not to mourn but to celebrate Jake's eternal life. As it was said during the service, Jake had a personal relationship with the Lord. This is the reason he is in Heaven. Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No man comes to the father except through me." Some may argue that parts of the Bible can be interpreted in different ways, but this particular verse is as clear as day. Life can be taken in an instant. If you do not know Jesus, please get to know Him before it is too late. This is not a subject to be taken lightly. I am not saying this for my own benefit at all but because I love and care about you and want your eternity to be secure.
Now, I am asking a favor. Not for myself but for Jake's dear parents, Stephanie and Jay. I want you to stop reading and pray for them. Lift them up and pray that they would have the strength of eagles (Isaiah 40:31). Please make yourself a note or reminder to pray for them as many times as they come to mind. My heart ached every day during Thanksgiving and still hurts so much. I believe that shared joy is double joy, but shared sorrow is half the sorrow. Pray that their load of sorrow will be lifted until the day when they see Jake again. Through their grief they are the epitome of strength and grace.
Romans 15:13 "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit."
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I thank God every day for many of his blessings, one of which is Ryan. We had two big meals for our first married Thanksgiving. The first was at the Johnson's house. Here is our lunch in pictures.



As usual, football is the top priority. Now if only people could go HUNTING in football gear, what a perfect world it would be- ha!
Next up, Thanksgiving dinner at the Carlson household:
It's not a formal dinner if you're not wearing a Minnie Mouse shirt. I'm not sure why I decided to change into PJs right before the meal, but that is completely unimportant in the scheme of things. I was SO thrilled to have Jay home; I hadn't seen him since August! Surely his past three months were a little more peaceful because of this.

On Friday night Mesha came to town. She, Jay, and I headed to the Dillon wildcat lower state football game. It was played in Jake's honor.

I have such fond memories of cheerleading during Dillon Wildcat football games. I remember having the whole squad come to my parents' house once a week to paint signs, going to the concession stand to get boiled peanuts, and throwing footballs during halftime (whatever happened to those?). I actually hit a woman in the head once with one of those footballs, looked innocently at the girl beside me and then RAN. Shall we go down memory lane...

Karen has always been supportive of her Dad, Coach Reeves. He is awesome!

Saturday was a King's lunch/decorate the house for Christmas/USC Clemson football kind of day.

Nothing says fun quite like an evening at the Lewis's house. Making monster cookies?? An added bonus! I love all these guys so much!!! Hanging out with them is an absolute B.L.A.S.T.

The focus at church on Sunday was "International Missions." I did not know this before arriving Sunday morning. The evening before Joy and I were taking a walk, and I told her how much it pains me to think about some people not knowing Jesus and how I wanted to help spread the message. She said, "Well, maybe mission work is what God is calling you to do." It is unbelievable how God works. His message to you may come right out of your best friend's mouth. Pray for me in this area.
As Christmas rapidly approaches I pray that mine and your heart will stay focused on Him. Please remember the Davids in your prayers today and always. Prayer is so powerful. Let's use it to strengthen our brothers and sisters in Christ.
